a posture of kindness
Nothing feels safer than when we are in the presence of another who is attuned to the dark, shameful places inside of us and yet has a posture of kindness rather than contempt. ~ Adam Young Counseling I believe humanity is moving out of a biological, evolutionary "need" for shame. We've got a ways to go. In the meantime, we still experience it and it can be debilitating and dysregulating (ask me how I know), especially when we're not aware when it's running the show. We need to know: #1 how...